Susan, such a powerful and moving piece. Thank you!!! It was very timely for me. The story of your brother’s memorial service gave me hope. I’m planning a memorial service for my mother (2 years after her death!) and it’s opening up some uncomfortable and unexpected things for me. It feels weird to ask, but I wondered if you’d be willing to speak w me on the phone as you’re someone who has navigated terrain that feels new to me. If not, no worries at all. Just thought I’d put it out there!!!!